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God loves me.

I’m a single woman and looking, so to speak for a companion, boyfriend, husband….and I’ll admit, I’ve been praying about it. One thing that I realize is before I talk to God about what I want, I have to know what I want. So, first of all, I told God that I only want the man that He sends for me—and I want him to love me like God intends for him to love me. Now I know that a man in the flesh is not going to totally able to love me like God loves me…but he has to have the love of God in him before he can even get close. I’ve compiled a quick list of the things my God-sent man should be:

1. A gentleman-- a civilized, educated, sensitive and well-mannered man. He opens doors for me, he respects and honors me. He does not force himself on me.

2. Confident having no uncertainty about his abilities. But NOT arrogant! He knows his worth—he knows Whose he is and Who he is AND most importantly, Who HE is! He can change the oil in the car, mow the lawn, clean the house, do the dishes, do the laundry, and DO ME --and still be confident in knowing that he’s the man of the house.

3. A provider and protector. He will support me. He must also be able to accept support from me. He is a defender and a guardian of my person and of our household.

4. He’s powerful. He knows all of his power is in his prayers and his praise. He is humble and submits to the Power of God over our lives.

5. He has my back. There’s nothing he won’t do for me. Because he knows there’s nothing I won’t do for him.

6. He wants to make me happy. He anticipates my wants and needs. Does this need an explanation? Well, I’ll provide a short one. I want affection and attention. He knows how to draw a nice hot bath, light some candles, turn on some soft music, and wash my back, and then…. And, not to worry...not only will he make me happy, but I will strive to make him happy, too!

7. He loves me. He shows me and tells me so. He calls me, brings me flowers, takes me to dinner, displays affection in public, etc. every now and again.

8. There are no strings attached. He does not need a performance from me in order to earn his love.

9. He keeps his promises! His word is his bond. If he says he will, he does.

10. No one can separate us. No one can influence his opinion of me in a negative way, nor mine of him.

11. He is intimate with me. And not just physical intimacy. I describe intimacy as open and frequent communication, having close contact over a period of time, building my trust and confidence in him through words and actions, which will lead towards becoming endeared one to another.

12.He cannot disown me. I am a part of him/he is a part of me.

13. He covers me and doesn’t expose me. He accepts me, flaws and all, and will not expose my short-comings to the world. He is connected to me/and I to him, and will allow his strength to conceal my weaknesses. He will sit on my secrets and not reveal them to my friends or to my enemies. He will provide a defense for my heart, my emotions by guarding my inner-most thoughts and feelings.

I don't think this is too much to expect. God does it and He created man. So I’m sure He’s created a man to be just who and what I’d need him to be. You see, I not only want to receive this kind of love, but to give it as well.
Yeah, a man ought to reflect God's love when he loves a woman.